First, gathering the requirements (1.1 Philippines and 1.2 Belgium), cost, and its timeline.
Second, visa appointment, interview, and its timeline.
Third (and I believe the grueling part), is the waiting part, checking the website for updates, requirements after the decision was given, cost, and timeline.
My Situation: Patrick proposed to me! (Smile from ear to ear). And we can't wait to start our lives together. There is no time to lose! We have to process our papers ASAP.
First part - Gathering requirements
I.1 PHILIPPINES
September 2010
1. Get a copy of birth certificate and CENOMAR in NSO. What I did here is ALL online. Go to this link https://www.ecensus.com.ph/Secure/frmIndex.asp to have your birth certificate and CENOMAR delivered right at your doorstep. (DISCLAIMER: I don't have any monetary gain by promoting their website nor am I liable for any transactions you make with them. I posted the link for info purposes.) Isn't that so convenient! No need to stand on queue for a long time. It's great for working individuals who doesn't have to file for leave of absence just to get birth certificate and CENOMAR.
<<From the website ~~ e-Census accepts requests for delivery within and outside the Philippines.
• LOCAL REQUEST: delivery destination is within the Philippines; PhP315.00 per copy for copy issuance of birth, marriage and death certificates, and PhP415.00 per copy for Certificate of No Marriage Record (CENOMAR or Singleness). The additional Php15.00 serves as the Documentary Stamp Tax (Sections 173 and 188 of the Tax Code and Revenue Memorandum Order 13-2008) per copy of certification issued.
• FOREIGN REQUEST: delivery destination is outside the Philippines; US$20.00 per copy for copy issuance and US$25.00 per copy for CENOMAR (Singleness).>>
~ I ordered 2 copies of birth certificate and 2 copies of CENOMAR and the documents were delivered 4 days after.
2. Go to barangay and get a resident certificate ~ I think this cost Php 50 in our barangay in QC and you get this the same day.
3. Then go to city hall to get the barangay certificate authenticated. ~ In QC, you have to be very assertive so you can get the authenticated certificate the same day. Another Php 50 for this.
4. Also in the city hall, get the mayor's certificate. ~~ Now, this is going to be challenging because in QC, the signatory is really the mayor (not even OIC or a stamp pad), so I really have to wait until the mayor signed the document...I have to pay another Php 50 for this (or more? I can't remember ~ I'm having a memory gap LOL!) I got the mayor's certificate 4 days after (after a lot of calling and pestering them every day following up that one precious paper).
5. And while you are at the city hall compound, might as well go to Hall of Justice. Why? Because you will be needing a Special Power of Attorney (Dutch: Volmacht) authorizing your fiance (or the one who is going to process your papers in Belgium) to sign on your behalf. Please have the SPA notarized by a judge in RTC (Hall of Justice) Cost: SPA is Php150-250 (you can haggle! :D) and notarization is Php100. Notarized documents are ready after 2-3 days.
6. One thing good about being in QC is that most government offices are within the area. And I am talking about the NBI office (which is also just adjacent to the city hall). Renewing is just easy and very fast. Same day processing as well for Php115. Here is the link for more info http://www.nbi.gov.ph/faq.htm
(NOTE: NBI clearance is only required in the embassy on the day of your appointment and doesn't need to have red ribbon.)
7. By the way, I also want to add in this list of requirements a photocopy of my passport, affidavit of passport, and have it notarized. Why? Because Patrick's town hall asked for my national ID, and as we all know, we (Filipinos) don't have a national ID but our passport ~~ and so they asked to have an authenticated copy of it. Now, I don't know if this holds true for other town halls or just in West Vlaanderen. Anyway, affidavit is Php150-250 (depends on where you have it done ~ again, if you have the charm and power in haggling, you can always use it. :D) and authentication (from RTC again) is Php 100. Notarized documents are ready after 2-3 days.
8. Now that I have all the official and notarized documents, I went to Department of Foreign Affairs (DFA) and have all of them authenticated again ~ or should I say re-authenticated (red tape is really big in our country! ~ hence, the red ribbon on the documents). Regular processing takes one week for you to have your documents back (I'm not sure the cost though, from Php75-150 per document I think..) and expedite service is next day processing, so if you are in a hurry, you can avail this express option (the cost is still reasonable). You also have an option to have your documents delivered to you by DHL (they have a booth located inside the DFA itself) so you don't have to go back after you have brought your documents for authentication...Or for some reason, you cannot personally go to DFA, in the internet day and world, there is always an option to do things online (what a wonderful and convenient world we have now isn't it?) ~ here is the link http://authenticationexpress.com/index.html and you can ask for their services. (DISCLAIMER: I don't have any monetary gain by promoting their website nor am I liable for any transactions you make with them. I posted the link for info purposes.)
- a. Birth certificate + DFA authentication (red ribbon) <I have 2 copies: 1 to send to Belgium (town hall's copy) and 1 for my copy for the embassy>- ✔
- b. CENOMAR + DFA authentication (red ribbon) <I have 2 copies: 1 to send to Belgium (town hall's copy) and the other for my copy for the embassy> - ✔
- c. Resident certificate (barangay and Mayor certificate) + DFA authentication (red ribbon) - ✔
- d. Special Power of Attorney (notarized) + DFA authentication (red ribbon) - ✔
- e. Copy of passport, notarized affidavit + DFA authentication (red ribbon) - ✔
http://www.diplomatie.be/Manila/default.asp?id=28&ACT=5&content=18&mnu=28.
Authenticated documents were released after a week.
10. As soon as I received the legalized documents from the embassy, I mailed them to Patrick through International Express Mail Service (IEMS). There are other couriers as well like DHL, but (for some reason) I always prefer the postal service. Again, I'm not sure how much I paid for it because it depends on the weight but what I'm sure of is I didn't pay more than Php2500 for the package. Patrick received the documents a week after.
NOTE: After we are done with the DFA authentication, Patrick and I decided to call the embassy for an appointment to apply for fiancée visa. We were given an October 18 appointment.
Timeline for preparing documents in Philippines: 2-4 weeks.
I.2 BELGIUM
October 2010
1. Only after Patrick received my papers was he able to do his part of the work. ALL documents should be translated to their official language (Dutch, French, German) for the town hall to process the Marriage Declaration Act (akte van aangifte van huwelijk) which the Belgium embassy requires for fiancee visa. Good thing, he knows someone who is doing this kind of translation for visa or legal purposes ~ the very good-hearted and kind Mr. Van Bogaert who is actually a Philippines honorary consulate in Antwerp who helped us in so many ways possible to prepare our documents in Belgium. For those who are interested, you can e-mail Mr. Van Bogaert at pb.vanbogaert@skynet.be and I am sure he will be willing to assist you.
2. While waiting for our papers to be translated, Patrick went ahead and complete the other papers that the embassy requires.
a. Original Affidavit of Support “called Bijlage 3bis / Verbintenis Tot Tenlasteneming / Prise en charge/Annexe 3Bis”, legalized by town hall.
b. Family Composition called “Composition de Ménage / Samenstelling Van Het Gezin” to be obtained from town hall.
c. Photocopy of his resident or Belgian ID card.
d. Recent proof of income of the sponsor (must be within the last 3 months).
Note: For both a and b requirements from the town hall ~ they are free and can be processed the same day.
Patrick's Checklist:
- a. Original affidavit of support - ✔
- b. Family composition - ✔
- c. Photocopy of Belgian ID - ✔
- d. Proof of income (for the last 3 months) - ✔
- e. Marriage Declaration Act - Pending (as we are still waiting for the translations of my papers)
3. Also, with Mr. Van Boegart's assistance, he gave Patrick all the necessary papers that the Philippine embassy in Brussels will be requiring from us. For documents a, b, and c ~ Patrick sent them to me via e-mail (as I have to fill some of it out), then I scanned and e-mailed them back to him.
a.Affidavit of Single Status
One of the challenges that Patrick faced while processing our papers in the Belgium side is time. He has a full-time work and he cannot ask permission all the time to go out and "do this and that" for our papers. Town hall schedule only extends their service hours on Wednesdays (from 2-6PM) ~ and that's the only day he can go there (after his 5PM work) to submit papers (or follow it up). (Please take note that town hall schedules vary from every municipality.) My translated papers were done 3 days after Patrick has given them to Mr. Van Boegart (who is in Antwerp), but he can only go and get it back on the next weekend ~ again, because of his work. And so before we know it, two weeks had lapsed, and still no Marriage Declaration Act. :-(
Back in Manila, a week before my embassy appointment, I went ahead and did my medical exam. It was in the Clinic of Dr. Peralta which is also located in Makati (very near the Belgian embassy). I paid Php7800 for the medical examination and the accredited doctor will return the results of the exam and medical certificate directly to the embassy. I didn't get to see my medical exam results, (although I can if I requested it in the embassy), but I just phoned the clinic the next day to follow up if there is anything wrong with my health and they told me that everything is well and good and that they will forward the results and certificate to the embassy within the week.
Although not in the primary list of requirements from the embassy website, Patrick and I also prepared printouts of e-mails, chat history, snail mail, cards, pictures, phone bills, etc. ~~ that proves that you are in a relationship. I remember printing out our e-mail correspondence from 2009 and our conversation in messenger (it's good to save your chat conversation history) and I run out of ink! Then our pics from his trips in Philippines (with me of course) then our Europe trip together. (I brought with me 2 albums :D) You have to come in prepared as you don't know what they might ask of you.
Checking my list of requirements (I also advise you to have a checklist) ~ I have everything with me in my bag ~well, except the Marriage Declaration Act. :-(
Timeline for preparing papers in Belgium: 6-8 weeks
Second Part: Interview
October 18 @ 8AM Belgium embassy ~ I feel uneasy this time (compared to the time I was interviewed for visit visa). Maybe because Patrick is not with me this time (I feel secured when he is around) or maybe because our requirements were not complete yet (the Marriage Declaration Act is still pending) or maybe the combination of both ~ I am not used to not having Patrick around anymore and I am not used to going to battle missing an ammunition. Anyway, I was called 30 minutes after my appointment time (there are a lot of people there that time), and as usual, the lady in the counter ask for the basic requirements first: Please click the link for complete info on requirements for fiancée visa
http://www.diplomatie.be/Manila/default.asp?id=28&ACT=5&content=11&mnu=28
The interview went well and lasted for a good 20 minutes. (Please read my previous blog on interview tips). This time, unlike the visit visa interview, she asked me things about my relationship with Patrick. Here are some of the questions asked:
1. Who is your fiance? - (Here you have to know his complete name) :)
2. How did you meet him?
3. When did you meet him?
4. Have you seen him in person? When? Where? How often? - At this point, series of questions will be asked based on your answer from the previous question. You also need to be very definite with your answers especially with dates and places, circumstances or occasions.
5. Tell me about your fiance. Where does he work? Who are his friends? Hobbies? Tell me anything you know about him - At this point, the lady is establishing how well you know your man.
6. Have you met his family? Give me the names if you know them.
Then the lady asked for proof of relation and that means the letters, cards, e-mails, pictures, etc. They need the original and 2 sets of photocopies of each (Yeah 2 sets!). Then I was asked of the papers from Patrick and I told her I have all of it except for the Marriage Declaration Act because my papers are still being translated. She did some typing in her computer and told me to pay the fee. She then gave me my visa reference number and a checklist paper for my pending documents. And since I still need to photocopy in 2 sets of the "proof of relation," it was also in the checklist with the Marriage declaration act as my pending documents. I still have time before the embassy closes at 12 noon, so I went ahead and have the papers and pictures photocopied. I was afraid that the pictures will not be returned back to me and so I just pick 10 pictures to submit to the embassy. All was accomplished by noon that day. :D
As soon as I was home, I e-mailed Patrick my visa reference number and we talked that night about how the interview went.
Back in Belgium, a week after I lodged our application, Patrick was able to get the translated documents from Antwerp.
Wednesday that week, geared with so much anticipation that finally the translated papers were with him and the town hall can finally start processing our papers for the Marriage Declaration Act ~ lo and behold ~ the man who's assigned to do our papers was on vacation! What a stressful and frustrating week that was!
November 2010
Time flies so fast for others, but not for me who is waiting when that Marriage Declaration Act will be done. It also didn't help change the stress level I have when Patrick e-mailed the Belgian consul in Manila asking if there is a deadline for pending documents or they will proceed with sending my papers from Manila to Brussels even without the Marriage Declaration Act. He just replied Patrick that incomplete papers are ground for visa denial. He didn't answer if there is a deadline or if my papers were sent already to Brussels. That time I was really upset. After all the works I have done on my end, I cannot accept that only for that one paper alone (which, on Patrick's defense, is also not his fault ~ he didn't know that there is only one man doing that kind of paper in his town hall and he didn't know that the man will be on his vacation) can make the difference in their decision. I even remember Patrick going directly to the Burgemeester (Mayor) to consult our case, but he just told him to wait because there is only one man in the town hall who is authorized to do that kind of papers.
Second week of November when Patrick finally received a post mail from the town hall stating that he has an appointment with them a week after. November 23, when finally, the precious paper was given to us!
Patrick was also interviewed in the town hall that day. Most of the questions were also about our relationship. He was asked a couple of times on what language we communicate on, and he told the man we converse primarily in English. Apparently, not many can speak well English here (because the 3 major languages spoken in Belgium are Dutch, French, and German), and Patrick has to prove the man that he can speak well English. He showed him our e-mail correspondences and chat conversations. After 30 minutes of interrogation, the man told Patrick that he will forward the papers to Brussels and all we can do is wait.
Our original plan was to get married on my birthday (December 8), but we just had our pending paper sent to the embassy and we cannot expect Brussels to send a decision a week after. And so the original plan was postponed to February 15 (Patrick's birthday).
November 30 when I received a call from the embassy scheduling me for an appointment on December 7.
December 2010
Second interview was intensive. I was asked inside the office to fill out first some questionnaires. The questionnaire is all about basic information about myself and my fiance like address, phone number, work, family members, etc. Then I was called to go inside another office of a Caucasian lady (which I believe is the consul or an immigration officer from Belgium ~ I might be wrong though). Question and answer portion lasted for almost 3 hours ~~ and believe me, it was draining! She asked me things and events from the time Patrick and I met to the present. So don't be intimated by this, because questions will only be about him and you, and your relationship. You might not know everything about your man (because I don't know if he has a favorite movie or not), but you should know a good deal about him, especially the thing that matters. The good thing about the interview was I'm seated and even she throws intimate questions on me, we are in the privacy of her room.
Third part: Checking the website for updates, requirements after the decision was given, cost, and timeline.
A week after the interview, I can already check the status of my visa online https://infovisa.ibz.be/InfovisaNl.aspx
And here is the English translation (I am using Google Chrome browser and it has an option to translate foreign language to English)
January 2010
Waiting...and waiting..and more waiting...and no new update from the website...
February 2010
Patrick and I are both getting uneasy and restless and missing each other so much!! It has already been 6 weeks since the documents were registered in the Immigration Department and no new update yet. Our plan of getting married on his birthday is again postponed. :-( And this time, we didn't set the date anymore. We decided that we will get married as soon as the visa is granted ~ this way, we don't set ourselves up on being disappointed ~ less stress and more years in life. Well, that is easily said than done I know.
I googled for blogs (if there are any) about fiancée visa and their experiences ~ but there are none :-( and so I promised myself, I will write a blog about my experience, and I will make it as informative as possible (because I know, in this way, I can make a restless mind and heart be calm when they get some answers (at least) to their enormous questions.)..and I feel better already...knowing that I can be of help even to a single restless soul.
Second week of February, Patrick cannot take the idea of not doing anything but wait, and so he e-mailed the immigration department in Brussels to inquire for the status of our application. He was given the contact person's e-mail who is actually the one handling our case. He was told that investigation was still ongoing and status of visa will be updated from the website, but he is to expect an inspector officer (from the federal police) to visit his house any day of the following week or the next.
March 2010
First week of March, Patrick received a mail for an appointment the week after in a federal police station. March 8, he was interrogated in the police station the same way as I was interrogated in my second interview. He told me he was questioned for nearly 2 hours by not one but two officers. We found out that most questions the visa officer asked me in Manila were also asked by the police officers to Patrick. This is for sure to check the consistency of our answers and if we are really being honest all throughout the process. Finally, the police told Patrick that there will be a local police officer who will check his apartment, and that would be the last of the all inspections required. Two days after, the house was inspected. Patrick told me that they even checked my closet! (I already have my closet from my last trip and had left a lot of my stuff there plus Patrick had been buying for me some winter clothes since November).
Two weeks after the inspection ~ March 21, we received the good news!
English translation:
The next day, I received an e-mail from the embassy informing me of my visa approval and was requested to submit the following documents through e-mail on or before April 12 to issue the visa: one-way ticket with confirmed dates, travel insurance with coverage of 30,000 Euro valid to all Schengen countries and valid in 3 months. We submitted the requirements 2 days after (again, we opted for an AXA insurance, and Patrick paid 80 Euro, valid for 3 months).
March 31 was my flight. April 1, reunited with Patrick. And finally, April 8 ~ we got married! :D
Timeline from the lodging of the visa application to visa approval: 20 weeks or 5 months
“the longer you wait for something,the more you appreciate it when you get it… anything worth having is definitely worth waiting for…”
